All of it is about the way they can feel most comfortable opening themselves. There's no need to big into the deeper, darker things that have made them who they are. Instead, it's easy, and generous, and Inej finds that so remarkable somehow. Learning about someone through honest means and not through spying, or spontaneous discovery? She must be losing her edge.

"Start with where you're from and family," she commands, smiling at him. "They go hand and hand, don't you think?"